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Lemuel Tan
Dec 26, 20245 min read
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy: A modern trauma and PTSD processing technique
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy is a therapeutic approach designed to help individuals process and alleviate...
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Lemuel Tan
Nov 19, 20247 min read
Maladaptive Schemas: How Coping Styles Keep Us Stuck in Negative Patterns
Do you ever feel like you’re stuck in the same patterns of behavior, even when you know they’re not serving you well? Perhaps you find...
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Lemuel Tan
Dec 24, 20234 min read
Trauma: Acute Trauma (PTSD), Chronic Trauma and Complex Trauma
Trauma is a complicated part of human life that can impact people in different ways. The word "trauma" has its roots in ancient Greek. It...
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Lemuel Tan
Mar 17, 20223 min read
Autism Assessment: Autism Diagnostic Observation Schedule 2nd Edition (ADOS-2)
AURE: Psychology, Counselling & Therapy currently provides the Autism Diagnostic Observation Schedule 2nd Edition (ADOS-2) as part of the...
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Lemuel Tan
Feb 20, 20226 min read
What is autism or Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)?
Autism refers refers to a wide range of challenges with social engagement, repetitive behaviors/"sameness" and sensory sensitivities. It...
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Lemuel Tan
Jan 19, 20224 min read
Left Brain & Right Brain
In my previous blog post, we explored about the triune brain and how I liked the model for its simplicity. In the spirit of ‘keeping...
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Lemuel Tan
Oct 6, 20214 min read
Anxiety Attack & Panic Attack
What is the difference between an Anxiety Attack and a Panic Attack? Most people would use them interchangeably. However, there is a...
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Lemuel Tan
Jul 19, 20214 min read
Anger: A Helpful Emotion
There is this comedic scene from “Anger Management” where Dave (played by Adam Sandler) and his psychiatrist, Dr. Rydell, (played by Jack...
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Lemuel Tan
Jun 5, 20213 min read
Forgiveness: An Intentional Choice.
Unforgiveness or not forgiving is when you are unable or unwilling to forgive the person that hurt, betrayed or broke your trust. There...
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Lemuel Tan
Apr 30, 20215 min read
Suicidal Thoughts and Suicide Prevention
According to the Australian Institute of Health and Welfare, suicide is the leading cause of death among people aged 15-44 years old in...
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Lemuel Tan
Feb 21, 20214 min read
Shame and Guilt
What are the similarities and differences between shame and guilt? Often people would express them as negative emotions that they would...
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Lemuel Tan
Jan 10, 20214 min read
The Impact of Gratitude On Your Mental Health
In 2020 we had the horrendous Australian bushfires, the social and political unrest in America, locust plagues in Africa and the Middle...
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Lemuel Tan
Dec 20, 20204 min read
Tips for Christmas & Holiday Self-Care
Christmas and the festive seasons are known for its joy and cheerfulness. However, for some, this period can be eclipsed by family...
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Lemuel Tan
Nov 8, 20206 min read
Psychology Week 2020: Chronic Pain in Adults
Psychology Week is an annual initiative of the Australian Psychological Society (APS) that aims to increase public awareness of how...
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Lemuel Tan
Oct 14, 20203 min read
COGNITIVE DISTORTIONS (UNHELPFUL THINKING STYLES)
Aaron Beck is often considered the Father of Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (cognitive basically means thinking). In his research on...
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Lemuel Tan
Sep 15, 20204 min read
DBT: DEARMAN
DEARMAN is an Interpersonal Effectiveness Skill within Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)*. DEARMAN teaches an individual how to ask for...
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Lemuel Tan
Aug 7, 20204 min read
BIG T TRAUMA and little t trauma
Trauma is more than a terrorist attack, a motor vehicle accident or even a diagnosis of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). Trauma is...
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Lemuel Tan
Jul 5, 20205 min read
I was asked to do an IQ test….
“What happens if I have a low IQ score? Is there something wrong with my brain? Will I be labeled as an idiot if I have a low enough...
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Lemuel Tan
May 31, 20203 min read
Being a Parent Vs Parenting
One of the things that I have learned through my career is that language has a subtle but powerful influence on how it impacts us. We are...
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Lemuel Tan
Apr 26, 20205 min read
Sleep Hygiene & Mental Health
Here is a riddle: When we ask this question you can never say yes to it? Answer: Are you asleep yet? We spend one third of our lives...
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